Wednesday, October 22, 2025

LOVE THAT RED

 




I've been simply mesmerized in a vast collection of photos lately---mostly old ones, for another blog subject to come in its time, and in re-reading a friend's blog this morning, I was so caught  up in his story of a staid English uncle so enamoured of a lady that he caught a train from London to Scotland in 1928, simply to have luncheon with her.   If anything came of their romance, my friend never knew, but Uncle DID buy a house near her, and lived out his long life in the Highlands, leaving behind an enormous English country house and great rooms of furniture, which his family inherited.


The atmosphere of that Perhaps Love Affair was palpable in his words, for he writes exquisitely of beautiful things and people and times, that I could see the haze of smoke in their air, the scent of Winter-long furs and Toujours Moi and dustings of face powder, with a little rim of unblotted lipstick on the unfiltered cigarette paper left in the ashtray.

 

It so reminded me of some of the women in my own family, whose great presences were punctuated by scents and colours---good perfume and wafts of Coty powder, and one Aunt whose lipstick fascinated me so as a child and teen, I could scarcely look her in the eyes, for staring at the odd configuration of her bright lips:

 

(from my own blog---a memory from a far time, published several years ago):   Her red nail polish matched her lipstick, which was put on with the oddest little down-strokes side-by-side in the middle, higher than her own lipline, then by doing a big old theater-mask-mouth which stretched her bottom lip TIGHT while she did a corner-to-corner Revlon swoop (Love That Red). That lip totally covered, she bit them tight together, transferring a coat to the top lip. The original two little pointy places right in the middle stood brightly high like the tops of angel-wings, their line of demarcation flowing into the flat dryness of a sifty layer of Coty powder which clung to the downy hairs of her upper lip.


She was the Aunt of the Purse Peke, a perfect canine armful of happy spun-gold and exuberant licks, and the longtime owner of a monkey which reached his demise by the Winter-time perch around a floor lamp which slowly decimated his tail and thus he went.   She was also loving Sister-in-Law to her husband's two "afflicted" brothers---the term of those days to convey an unfortunate condition, usually from birth.  They were both handicapped, and she was a true, helpful, uplifting Sister.  And her "other" sideline which got her and her husband talked about and into the calaboose---perhaps moire non, when more mature subjects are discussed.   

2 comments:

  1. Girl, you ARE ON A ROLL...........lots of "pent up" writings and musings going on there!? I do that too....go for ages and feel so uninspired, then WHAM......gotta write, write, write, LOL! Anyway, I've sure enjoyed the recent posts and they bring back so many precious memories, especially this lipstick one, LOL. Gosh, I've been through so many tubes of "love that Red" over the years! Remember "cherries in the snow"? I can still smell the Coty powder too!....and yes, we were taught to daintily "blot" our freshly applied lipstick, always. First lipsticks came around age 13, about the time of the first longed-for NYLONS and "heels" for special occasions/concerts/recitals/weddings/teas etc. only of course, not for school. And those "heels" were LOW, not real high heels yet, but still we felt so grown up. Later on of course, we learned the real struggle of the girdle or garter belt when it had to be donned every single DAY, because wearing of "slacks" by female students had YET TO BE APPROVED by the School Board. LOL. So yes, dresses/skirts every day, even if it was freezing. The invention of "pantyhose" was amazing and so freeing!

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  2. Oh you GIRL, YOU!! You find the exact point in all my ponders, just recalling things the same. I know from seeing your pictures that you're a generation removed from mine, but those memories must have stuck a lifetime. Lipstick---from that first tiny Avon sample of "natural" as our first A-Lady called it---a stick of very thick Vaselinish stuff, vaguely pink, and I was allowed a tube of that in sixth grade. I could hardly bear to put the stick to my lips for fear of breaking that first precious permission, and so still did a careful touch and smear with my index finger.
    On a sillier note, after we were allowed a color tube, I saw Laraine Day's lips gleam slightly in the moonlight in a B&W movie, and reasoned that I could just do that with the real thing. I would do the whole smear color with little finger across the wid-smile bottom lip, then blot like my dearie Helen taught me. Then I'd dab on a wee bit of shine. I'm tellin' you, I know I spent my first two years at Ole Miss with a scrimp-folded piece of Reynolds Wrap in my purse, holding a little finger-streak of Vaseline.

    I recall a several-times dated guy who asked, "What makes your lips so moist?" but I didn't tell him. I went on in life with my carefully transported "shine" for years, and was totally convinced I had STARTED SOMETHING. Still did my part. And oh, yes, Cherries in the Snow, lovely but it never took the place of my LTR I still have two tubes and am wearing some right now. I'm not ready for the day til I Brush teeth, mouthwash Dr. Tischenor's, scrub and lightly OofO my smile lines, walk through a little spritz of Giorgio or Shalimar, and dab on a bit of LTR. Like my friend Kelle Hampton says, "Rule #1: Wear red shoes. Or red lipstick. Or red underwear. Red is Ordinary's Kryptonite." Doncha just LOVE her!!?

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