DELIVER ME!!

I think we two ladies could get accustomed to all this stuff available for delivery to the porch.   We seldom order food, but other supplies are vastly welcome when the snow lingers for a week.    We have been  so accustomed to having to do all our own shopping and gathering, even though we have been in this city for exactly thirty-five years.   

Reminiscing from a long ago post back when LAWN TEA was new and I was just scattering thoughts to the inter-winds every day, it seems:  FROM EXACTLY TEN YEARS AGO:   

We had newspaper delivery when I was growing up, and after Sis was born, our milk was delivered by a milk-man in a snazzy little white truck.   And besides all the garden produce we planted and picked and canned and froze ourselves every Summer, and the "spoken for" quarter of beef, received from Mr. Neighbors' Meat Market in neat white parcels, all smoothed and creased with the artistry of those exquisite Japanese gift-wraps, we did belong for several years to the "RICH PLAN."   It was a sort of precursor to Schwann's and such, for they brought you frozen meats and vegetables, and oh, those frozen peach slices in deep cold January, rattling into a pie crust for a taste of Summer!

 





I loved looking at the crisp colourful pages of the thin "catalog" which pictured all that little toy food---the brightest peas in the history of peadom, the berries, each frozen whole in its little crust of ice, and filling your mouth with its popsicle Summer flavor, and all sorts of "made" stuff.   We'd always made every single item in our own kitchen---salmon patties and all our own pasta dishes and casseroles and breaded chicken, and there they were, each and every one more vivid and enticing than anything in the Betty Crocker book with its stylized outlines of fish and chops in their wee frilly toques and pictures of anemic pastel desserts less alluring than the spread at a Heckle and Jeckle picnic.

 

  Just the variety of Rich's shapes of pineapple, like little kitchen Legos, fascinated me with their infinite possibilities. 

 
   And those exotic Stuffed Crabs---our only exposure to the taste of crab was on occasional trips to the coast or Pensacola, and a day's "fishing" off the pier with a bit of chicken liver on a string, as the determined little crabs hung on to their catch long enough to be pulled up into the small dip-nets.   We'd have one night with a "crab dinner" in our motel kitchenette, cooking the little fellows in a huge pot Mother had brought from home (stuffed full of Sis's clothes and toys for economy of space in the trunk).  Those were messy affairs, with little hammers and the brought-along nut-picks and wet dishrags and bedtime showers for everyone after, especially after a day in the sun and 
sand---and the luxury of all that hot water at that beachside little motel, with nobody having to wait for the water heater to regroup and refill.

But The Rich Stuffed Crab, now---those were special, and Mother doled them out like ortolans, precious and rare.  They were probably a ratio of twenty parts bread crumbs to one part crabmeat, stuffed back into the strange little bony shells and baked til golden on top.  Those were my dreams of what Movie Stars probably ate, and I helped Mother make great occasions of the special dish---homemade tartar sauce and cocktail sauce and moon-smiles of lemon, and it seemed quite a grand affair, there at our little kitchen table so far removed from the ocean.  And no, I didn't eat them, but I was piqued by such fiddly, interesting ways to "do" food, even at that young age.  

What a silly morning, reminiscing about such far-ago things as crab shells and frilly little panties for lamb chops.  I'm sure that's partially where I got this odd tendency to gussy up food.  Oh. Well.  

Happy FEBRUARY to everybody!

CATCHING UP WATER

With all the dire weathercasts for us, then not us, then everybody maybe---I do note the prophesied nine days of Below Tens that show for our future.   And I've done quite an odd thing---age-old thing, and certainly quite familiar to our Deep South days in the fickle HOTTTT  Delta-that-got-ICE STORMS. 

I Caught Up Water.   That's what you called it, if a pump had a problem or you feared for the pipes---sure as the schoolbuses rolled for the first two snowflakes past a window, the whole populace seemed to break out the Colemans and buckets and pans and CATCH UP a reasonable amount.   I had bought five new food-grade clear 16-gallon tubs with snap lids for all the cleanup and extra storage after the Summer House-Wiring Fiasco, and I just now filled one upstairs and one down, just in case.   And OHHH, the Memories flooded in.

We shared a pump on the farm---four houses of us, all kin, and at one time there, we had five generations right there around one big lawn.   My first Mother-in-Law was an Angel on this Earth, and Taking Care was her middle name.   She was stringently dedicated to all the "power" supplies---the electricity, the big silver gas tanks which sat beside each house, and our wonderful water----hundreds-of-feet-deep icy fresh water, serving us all, with ONE Golden Rule:   When the thermometer was to reach 33 in the night, the pump power was turned off to prevent any kind of mishap with frozen pipes at any house, or at the pump itself.

And she turned it off herself and drained it.   Every time.  At six o'clock on those nights, you could see her out there in the floodlight, robe flying and house-shoes planted in the gravel, getting that thing all safe for another cold night.   She just didn't trust it if she couldn't see it, so she drained it and clicked that switch.   And since they'd had their suppers and baths before six most nights in the Big House, we of the other houses had to scramble through homework and hot water levels and whose-turn-is-it right about the time our Lasagna came out of the oven, or the dishes were half washed.  I love a morning bath, but six-thirty school buses wait for no one to bathe.   

Some awkward and unnecessary hurry-ups in those days, but we wouldn't take anything for the snug, comforting reliance on everything running smoothly because Ma had things in hand.   I hit the Family Lottery with that one.  She also called me every time there was a thunderstorm, to turn off the stove, because "heat draws Lightning."   And such were the tiny quirks and sayings that made her the beloved Grandmother fondly remembered and with three generations already named after her.  

And the story of the Ice Storm when four neighbors appeared at our door with a "Can you take us in?" and stayed six days, with our guys going back to their house to their only building with a warm bathroom to shower at night, picking up barrels of water for all our group, and we ladies going to Aunt's house by twos, and all of us nine sleeping cozily SOMEWHERE in that crowded house.

And the Great Mystery of how OUR house was the only one on that country road that the lights stayed on.   We could SEE the drooping cables and downed power-poles all the way to Clarksdale, and all our family around us was living by lamplight, but our LIGHTS DID NOT GO OUT.   I was even catering a wedding that weekend, with all the company in the house.    Those are stories for another time.  

WHO WILL REMEMBER?

Yesterday was a lovely sunbeam-filled day, with the bright-off-the-snow beams through the sheers onto our Birthday Table for Sweetpea's Mom.    We'd ordered some of her preferred dishes from our favorite Chinese place, and they picked it up on their way over.

Sweetpea came in wearing a favorite old camo shirt of her Ganner's---one she'd worn many times dragging the floor for sleepovers, and now just right for her grown-up self.   It set the conversation to family and who was who, and names---her sweet first Granddad, gone from us way to soon at thirty, decades before she was born.   And it all just spread to name after name in that big group back in Mississippi, and one charming coincidence that both my Mothers-in-law had practically the same name---Blanche White and Clara White---and so Sweetpea had two Grandmothers literally named "White White."

We just kept bringing up the names, and I had a little frisson of how Davidge must have felt reeling off the Jeriba line for Zammis' acceptance to the Holy Council of Draco. 

And so, this still-frosty eight-degrees morning, and especially after reading MISS MERRY'S  post of her own research, and her entreaties for Identifying-them-while-you-still-can,   I went back and read over a post here, from exactly fifteen years ago, hoping that it would inspire folks to identify and give names and life to their own Ancestors.  

From LAWN TEA,   January 4, 2011: 

My Sis in San Antonio has done a wonderful research into our family's genealogy, even going to Salt Lake City to that biggest-trove-of-info-in-the-country for a week and barricading herself with files and wills and pictures and transcripts and TREES. And their trip to Ireland was a trove of information fromall the "Murphree side" of Daddy's family.    We have boxes and boxes of pictures of our own, from both sides, though not nearly as many from Daddy's side. What there are of his go back only to those more recent Kodak moments of sepia or black-and-white, with folks squinting into the sun as a long shadow reaches from camera to their feet. Most of those little rectangles have a tiny black-and-white checkery border, and lots in the boxes attest their having been ripped from their life-in-scrapbooks, for many corners still bear the tiny pointed black ears of the wee stick-on brackets which affixed many a picture to a blotter-black page.

We marvel at the facial expressions, the clothes, the fading draperies and tattered flowers of the stage-set of the early photos, and also think that perhaps this might be the only picture of those people that there is. In this day when our Grands have developed a permanent flinch-and-blink when Ganner approaches with the camera, and our own archives of holidays and vacations and just plain Tuesday have reached thousands in number---it's sad that our forebears in their one fading black-and-white, struck still and motionless by the gravity and the luxury of the thing, are fading as people, as well, for after our generation---who will know their names?

We're into doing a lot of picture-identifying, and I wish previous generations had done so. We've been writing names on the back of all the pics we can identify. I wish also that everybody with boxes and albums and framed pictures---I'm talkin' even that great huge family portrait from 1888 that's in the flaky old frame over the mantel, and might collapse in your hands if you take it apart---I WISH you'd write the names on the back of your pictures, or at least on a piece of paper adhered to the picture. Or even stuck in an envelope WITH the picture.

Y'ALL!   Let's name some names!

WHO REMEMBERS HOME EC?

 

Who remembers Home Ec?    

 WHO REMEMBERS HOME EC?  That Rite of Passage subject which, if you attended and learned all the finest points of Homemaking---you were almost guaranteed to find the Right Someone With Whom To.

Our Home Ec classes were in a charming smaller brick building, much like the wealthier folks’ homes in town, and with all the requisite rooms, but larger, and with purposes.    First and foremost was the kitchen---long counters with sinks every eight feet or so, almost like the chemistry lab, but ours were the outdoor-faucet types---those squat-nosed coppery screw-a-hose-onto faucets like for washing your car, rather than the tall swan upsweeps for filling all those science beakers and such.    There were cupboards and cabinets and a rank of four stoves, six burners each, and when all of us got going stirring Seven Minute or White Sauce---the already-tropical air became hotter.    We’d never heard of air conditioning yet, except for maybe at the picture show in Clarksdale, and that was a treat, indeed.

The kitchen had an air of past hot Summer cannings, with the shelves of the pantries filed with long lines of Ball and Mason jars of tomatoes and unsnapped beans and pickles.   There was a certain scent to that area, possibly because of the many jars which had merely a little calico circle secured with a string, to dust-guard the white layer of paraffin poured onto the boiling contents below to prevent any bacteria.   Wax and sugar the lasting tang of simmering home-fruit, for the countryside was then still so rural, you could stop out in the country and pick you a whole apronful of apples or peaches or fat rosy plums, with the grand prize being those thumb-size golden plums, my Mammaw’s favorite preserve, and gathered early of a morning way out in the hills toward her Home Place.   They DID make a marvelous concoction, and the round, translucent whole ones suspended in that thick golden syrup glowed with a magic of their own, as if being jewels was enough, and the sumptuous taste merely lagniappe.

Another large room held a couple of bedsteads, a few ironing boards, and wide flat counters for learning to fold everything from diapers to bedsheets.  Hospital corners on the beds, (no fitted sheets for a decade or so, but we welcomed those when they came) those line-dried sheets flipped just so, the top sheet with the wider cuff-end turned down a foot so as to display any monogram or fancy stitching, and the furry chenille bedspread spread neatly tucked around and over the two pillows, with any design military straight. 

The claggy smell of Faultless starch is unforgettable, with the few times we were required to mix our own dishpan of the grey goo, plunge in our hands and the pillowslips or dresser-scarves or aprons, and wring the whole mass neatly for hanging to dry.   Each piece was “sprinkled down”  with a nifty little pierced bottle-top inserted into a Pepsi bottle of cold water.  (We never mentioned the small snug rubber nipples sold for a nickel in the NOTIONS case---they fit over the lip of a Coke or Pepsi bottle for a lot of babies' milk, and nice folks didn't take notice of good folks using what they could afford). Those damp rolls were packed with all the others into a pillow case or big spread towel to go into a cool place (or into the freezer, which we finally got in about 1954) for best results.   And the ironing---I could get with that---I was thumping that heavy Westinghouse iron onto all the pillowslips and smaller items when I was eight and had to wrestle the board down onto its lowest notch---even Daddy’s boxers got a good pressing and folding.

I had had a small lifetime of all those tasks when I started Home Ec in eighth grade, but the big room with the dozen Singers all lined up beside the LONG cutting table with yardsticks nailed around the top edges like a back-stitched embroidered hem, and the three “dress forms”---big wire body shapes in three sizes S-M-L---Sadie, Maud and Bertha, probably named in the farback days when those names were popular---who stood in the shadows, haunting the far end of the room until they were called to duty---THAT was not my favorite area.   I’d tried to learn a seam on Mother’s and Mammaw’s machines, but my hands just would not learn a straight stitch, and my feet on Mammaw’s treadle would stray from the neat line quicker than you could say scat to a cat, into and out of time with whatever little black .45 Elvis record I had going.   Even hems and Rock‘n’Roll are not happy companions.  And Mammaw’s steadfast thumps hand on the crank and flying feet in rhythm to “Redwing” and Eddy Arnold were perfection I could never get the hang of.  Still haven’t, and even though I spent many a free afternoon with Mother and OTHER Mammaw over their crochet and embroidery, my best effort became a tight little cone by the fourth row.   If ever you need a Barbie hat, I’m your girl. 

And I would have been happy with that.   Those foldings and cleanings and cannings and recipes and bed-changings, on up to caring for an infant---on my part, up close---my only sister was born the year I turned twelve, and I spent my succeeding six years totally immersed in family life---Demi-Mom when school was not in session. I could have traveled the world as an au pair at sixteen, had we ever heard of such a thing.  

   We learned all the ins and outs of Homemaking of those times in the usual four years of Mrs. Ward’s tutelage and example.  I clipped out a comic strip decades ago---little girl musing to herself, “All I want to do is have a family and be a good wife and mother---WHY do I have to go to Kindergarten?”   And I really, until that senior year, expected that to be my life.    Despite my parent’s drive and eagle eyes on my grades and excelling in all things I could, I really never gave a thought to college---those Home Ec years instilled a love for cooking and homekeeping and all things to do with family, and that was what my Hope Chest was for.  

But, there was an entirely different path set for me, outside the home, and I’m grateful that I could experience both worlds.   And both were enhanced by my years in that big brick house that room-by-room, taught us girls (and quite a few boys, calling it Singles Survival) to take care of the simple and important things of everyday life. 

My Graduation Dance dress, in pale blue brocade.   Mrs. Baker made three of them, exactly alike, in different colors, and didn't say a word to any of us.    We took a look at each other at the dance, and all fell out laughing.   I wore it for years.

THE COLOURS OF THE WIND

 

Such Weather art as REDS AND GREEEEENS and all the shocking orange and yellows screeching from the screen.   I'd found a young man with the charming name of MAX (insert little exclamatory, shattery O here)  VELOCITY, on YouTube and since he was doing all warnings to Montana, I just settled to my puzzle.   And THEN I realized:   There CAN'T be another Bloomington and Mitchell and Orleans and Evansville just South there in Montana---too much coincidence.   It was for HERE---I'd been out in the morning, with a little fun shop at ALDI for Christmas leftovers and stocking stuffers for next year, and all was well when I came in lugging all the loot.  

Between then and lunch and MAX, the skies had taken a TURN and then it began to get dark  and I set a little grabbit lantern at my feet just in case.   We had one traumatic outage this past Summer whilst we were having the house re-wired---trauma enough in itself, but worse.

You know how "They Say" that a tornado sounds like a "Freight Train,"---I suppose for the greater weight of the train at the time, rather than a nice excursion or Express for commuting. At least they said that in all my Southern raising---on the Memphis NEWS Dave Brown used those exact words.   And Somehow, the winds were so gusty and the cold descending fast---I swore I could hear AMTRAK and Illinois Central and the Queen:  City of New Orleans, right here around our house.   I LOVE trains with all the love in my small-town-girls' heart, but I could see our enormous TREES waving in the yard as limber as the WeatherBush.    The Across-the-street neighbors had taken down the elaborate array of all things inflatable and lightable, or we'd have had a mylar/vinyl/plastic catastrophe right here in the street.   And dear Minnie Mouse, who we have laughed at for years for her tendency to deflate overnight, and fall sprawling with a drunken smile on her face---once up a tree, with her inebriated, goofy grin facing US, might have made it as far as I-65 before landing.  

We made it through the night, with no visible damages, and only the tiniest dust of white rime in the sidewalk cracks to show for all the rain, but that YouTube art was Scary as all get-out---like runaway Seventies graffiti in neon colors.  I have not heard of any damages or outages, and  it did allow for a couple of hours of texting with Sweetpea, with our describing the sounds and strength of the rainfall and the winds, and setting up a date or two for lunch while she's out of school.     You take BLESSIGNS where you find 'em.      Stay warm and well.