Friday, June 28, 2013

FUN WHILE IT LAUGHTED

 
 


 
 
 

Clean clean fix fix for company coming---wade wade through mumblefudge for days, picking up, putting down, planning things in dishes and who drinks caffeine and get-the-ingredients-for-Sis’s wonderful enchiladas and where shall we go out to dinner?

 

The preparation and the setting out and the cooking ahead have always been a big part of the enjoyment of expected company---as much as I admire the casual ease with which a TV mom stands chatting with several guests in the kitchen as she frosts the birthday cake while the kids are out there pinning the tail on the donkey, or re-watch with awe the astounding Thanksgiving dinners put together by Mia Farrow as everybody in five boroughs mills around the bar in her living room, I STILL like to have things done ahead.

 

Just sliding a casserole out of the oven while directing somebody to head the fridge dishes toward table as someone else scoops ice into the glasses and yet another heads upstairs to rustle the devilled eggs out of THAT fridge---that’s my idea of being prepared and ready to sit down to dinner.

 

And we pretty much DID.   But, as so many things devolve from Martha dreams into US reality, our visit this week ranged from splendid (an evening at elegant Formosa with their sublime food and everybody-getting-exactly-what-they-wanted in that hushed atmosphere) to our grilled burgers on paper plates and mustard jars and ketchup and the great fragrant plate of sliced onion and tomatoes, the corn-butter smears on everything and the drips from the quick-scooped ice cream for dessert.   Messy and fun, but I don't have the advantage of having these people dancing through my kitchen.
 
 

 

Another night we had pasta and meatballs and sausages, with a tongue-curling-tangy salad and the comfy clutter of a crowded table haphazard set with fridge dishes and mixing bowls and the pretty pot the beans were cooked in, with everybody bringing whatever they were sipping to the table in plastic or glass or cans.  The whole visit is still a blur, just like the picture.
 
 

 
Our moments were mostly counted in laughs.   I don’t think any buncha people EVER crammed so much laughing into three days ever in this world.    My sides hurt.   My FACE hurt.  We bounced jokes and funnies and entendres off each other, each of us exponentially wittier and smarter by dint of the company we were keeping.   When Sis brought out her I-pad and she and Sweetpea started conversing through a talking, burping dog---we all just broke up church.
 

The hee-hawing continued for DAYS.  Last night’s dinner table continued all the fun, and Sis’s imitation of the Geico camel, then the I-pad viewing of the CAMEL HIMSELF---the dueling shouts of “HUMP DAAAAAeeeee” between Sis  and Sweetpea, and then random blurts of it from all the rest of us, at just the moment we’d collected ourselves and calmed a bit, had us all hanging on to each other and gasping for breath.

 

And so it went.   We were all a bit subdued at breakfast just now, and our parting was a flurry of “Luck Leaf!” and “Group Hug!” and long waves down the drive.   I feel as if I’ve just run a marathon---wrung out and trembly and triumphantly tired.

 

I NEED some tea and porch.

 
 
 



6 comments:

Linda @ Friendship Tea said...

My first thoughts were: Busy! Fun! And, last: Yes, she uses paper plates, too!

Great post. Thanks for sharing.

steelersandstartrek said...

If a visit will cure you from the visit, come on down and we'll set you up on a nice foot-up recliner. We'll drink tea and eat the whatever-we-find and you won't have to lift a finger! (Except of course the pinkie of the tea cup hand.)

Southern Lady said...

Your story of your visit made me feel as if I was there in the midst of the laughter and all that wonderful food ... I hope the memories keep you smiling for a very long time.

jeanne, backyard neighbor said...

Hi Rachel, it's kind of late but I have missed you. Our camping trip was wet last week and this week the grands (6) and two of our daughters are weary of all the rain but still hoping for a better day before the weekend. The town 4th of July celebrations have been cancelled and will hopefully be on for Saturday. Sigh. We are still having fun.

It sounds like you also had a wonderful time with loved ones. I loved the photo you shared of everyone. I would also love to know how they are related to you. What a very beautiful bunch of young people. Good times and good food is what it is all about. But the laughter is the best part of having loved ones and wonderful stories and jokes to share. However, I am with you about the tired after glow. it will be two weeks this Friday with a gang and I'm tired. A good tired though.

Blessings and love,
Jeanne

racheld said...

Oh, Y'all! It's so GOOD to hear from everybody. Glad you enjoyed our whirlwind visit, and thanks for the offer of surcease and refreshment---we're winding down, though we HAVE been re-furbishing our bedroom all week. (can you hear the saw whirring RIGHT NOW?)

Jeanne,

I love that you're having such a wonderful Summer, and I wish you some of this cook weather and no more rain for a while.

The "young people" I think you mean are not OURS, so to speak, but the cast of the movie Big Chill." There's Glenn Close on the left, and William Hurt, et al.

I was referring to a dinner they had one evening, when everyone got up and cleared the table, did the dishes, wiped the counters, all the while dancing to this


http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=86GA4JnW7x4

Don't we all dream of a spontaneous moment like that, when everyone is dancing (doing dishes is a great bonus, as well).

Always glad to hear from you all.

Kim S. said...

What a lovely, lovely time you all had. There is nothing in the world like having your home filled with far flung loved ones! Like Mike, I'd love to sooth you from all the excitement by hosting you in our home!